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"This brilliant line got me to call instead of text"

Posted by Matthew, 09 Jun

I'm guilty…

Like most men, I had fallen into the habit of only texting women instead of picking up the phone and calling. It’s quick, it’s convenient, and I assumed it was the preferred method to keep in touch between dates – that is, until I met HER… The woman who completely changed my mind.

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The woman who used ONE brilliant line to literally re-train me to stop texting and actually pick up the phone and call her every time. She didn't have to nag me, or even come right out and ask me… But this one thing she said stuck in my brain, raised her value, and made me want to treat her differently than all other women.

I’m going to share with you this brilliant line in today’s video – it’s part of a crazy-simple, 3-step process you can use right away to get this same amazing result with the men in your life…

I’ll also reveal the one thing you MUST have if you want to get past the first date and get asked out a second, third and fourth time… and I’ll tell you exactly how to get it.

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Matthew Hussey is a renowned dating expert and author. His latest dating book Get The Guy is a New York Times bestseller, he's the go-to relationship expert for Rachael Ray, Katie Couric, Ryan Seacrest, Meredith Vieira and many others. And he's a relationship columnist for Cosmopolitan magazine and the resident love expert for "The Today Show." Here he shares his proven strategies to get a man to do anything you want, from tirelessly pursuing you to treating you like a goddess to committing to you for life.

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  1.   Matz157 says:
    Posted: 14 Mar 20

    I wish someone would write a book about "how to get the girl"!

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  2.   fantacybabe says:
    Posted: 04 Sep 19

    Great

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  3.   Flogxycute says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 19

    Nice one

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  4.   Mphozer says:
    Posted: 08 May 19

    This is what I have been thinking of. That's wonderful

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  5.   Sandton_Lady says:
    Posted: 07 Feb 19

    Amazing! so true!

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  6.   Janzel says:
    Posted: 08 Nov 18

    Hi

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  7.   Piinkib says:
    Posted: 03 Sep 18

    This is good info

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  8.   Flowizzy says:
    Posted: 20 Jun 18

    Wow this is very refreshing and un open mind thank you

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  9.   A137956 says:
    Posted: 09 May 18

    It's good by texting and calling, and what's app have voice calling which we can do, but what if his mind is looking some where else. I think we must not put our eggs in one basket, it's a dating site. Meet as much person we can, find you own compatible person.

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  10.   0770426984 says:
    Posted: 08 May 18

    Hi Jessica please contact me as I am not always here because I don't know much about it

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  11.   Buatiful says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 18

    Hi thanks for your sharing video sharing advice thank you so much .

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  12.   magraff says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 18

    IM LIKE CALLING INSTEAD OF TEXTING THE VOIVE MAKES ME FEEL HOT

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  13.   Yolodiva55 says:
    Posted: 18 Mar 18

    I have always preferred a phone call. I like to hear a voice. A sexy voice goes a long way.

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  14.   Gabbyajw says:
    Posted: 28 Feb 18

    Thats so grand! Im an RBT, a reg behavioral therapist. I do this daily even with my dogs and never thought to apply it to my relationships with men. I guess i believed that it would be a natural inclination. Will do.

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  15.   LaBelle40 says:
    Posted: 13 Jan 18

    Thank you for sharing this helpful video.

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  16.   Lilyn8 says:
    Posted: 03 Dec 17

    Thanks for information

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  17.   julie995 says:
    Posted: 01 Dec 17

    Thanks for the wonderful information

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  18.   Rlly says:
    Posted: 14 Oct 17

    Yeah! Is cool

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  19.   Berre says:
    Posted: 08 Apr 17

    This sounds ok am now crazy but am scared ,will I get one plz help mi cause am waiting

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  20.   sshikoh says:
    Posted: 30 Jan 17

    Simple way at the end..texting s boring

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  21.   Mrs..diva says:
    Posted: 20 Jan 17

    Well texting is bit boring yes call is 2 the point on my path just can't my soulmate all I need is honesty n respect yes priceless gift no all ppl have it it sad

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  22.   Angelone58 says:
    Posted: 18 Oct 16

    Thank u for the info and I am a very confident person with a positive attitude about everything that I do. Eventually when u stick to something long enough and have the confidence and positive attitude that at some point in time it will happen. When it's right love will find me again I'm sure of because I don't give up and i am no quitter.

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  23.   Nrey says:
    Posted: 05 Oct 16

    My thing is that I easily get bored in a relationship specially when a guy doesn't put in effort. This is my second time on this site and I'm bored to tears with every guys profile on here. All their profiles are very similar in the description box. It's like a blur I can't recall which one I looked at last. I just I'll start speed dating because this is not working.

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    • Pashonroz says:
      Posted: 28 Sep 19

      If read "I'm down to earth" in very many more profiles I'm going to puke.

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  24.   se45 says:
    Posted: 25 Sep 16

    Great thank you for your advice

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  25.   ikalu says:
    Posted: 17 Jun 16

    but will i realy get my soulmate as i wish to pliiz help

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  26.   Chichiela says:
    Posted: 11 Jun 16

    Very helpful.Lets communicate now

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  27.   Barakass says:
    Posted: 19 May 16

    Informative

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  28.   Puya says:
    Posted: 18 May 16

    I must say I love the whole thing!! The couples that have met themselves here are really amaizing !!! But I haven't been lucky to get anyone talking to me!! I really don't know why!!!!

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  29.   flowers123 says:
    Posted: 30 Apr 16

    Hi I'm Shontil I'm here to meet someone

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  30.   flowers123 says:
    Posted: 30 Apr 16

    Hi I'm Shontil I will love to know more about dating cos at times I'm a bit nervous

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  31.   redfightet says:
    Posted: 14 Jan 16

    I m here to meetting people have a greet day

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  32.   honey1853 says:
    Posted: 18 Dec 15

    Hi there how about meeting for coffee

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    • Jonhere4u says:
      Posted: 24 Jan 16

      Let's go have coffee

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    • Klois says:
      Posted: 31 Jul 17

      I don't like coffee/or hot tea. Only time I have a cup if coffee is am. The only time I drink tea @ pm to relax ; be- for I fall asleep pm. Men r...so boring. even the ones who supposedly to have higher education. I told one guy you don't know how to talk with or to a woman. Hussey help the men out...they so desperately in need...they haven't a clue what to say or do.

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  33.   sillahs says:
    Posted: 13 Dec 15

    hello is me safiyong nice meet you people here

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  34.   SkyEliz says:
    Posted: 07 Dec 15

    Awesome insight and looking forward to next Sunday's video!

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  35.   ndipiwei33 says:
    Posted: 07 Nov 15

    It really makes sense

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  36.   munjelo says:
    Posted: 29 Oct 15

    I really don't needed this information as i didn't know how to make them call...... A person can only text so much.....

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  37.   rodman20 says:
    Posted: 06 Oct 15

    all this im reading about what going on and here im a 6ft3 and no woman wont talk to me about dating or any thing i ve try just about every i can and no luck at all . one thing i can say this site has beatful women i need one to call my own michael

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    • Faigah says:
      Posted: 03 Feb 16

      I wish you a best luck. ...just God's timing is always perfect. ...

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      • mosbus says:
        Posted: 13 Feb 16

        you are right and correct. This is very informative and helpful.

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  38.   Angiekenya says:
    Posted: 02 Oct 15

    This is very informative and helpful

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  39.   AquaNubuen56 says:
    Posted: 23 Sep 15

    Video is very informative. It has been many years since I've been into the dating game and I'm feeling s sense of sacredness. I want to live I want to find true love. I guess it's got to start with competent, what do you think?

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  40.   Claudie242 says:
    Posted: 21 Sep 15

    Very informative.

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  41.   teyelo says:
    Posted: 01 Sep 15

    Thanks Leticia for your sincere and wonderful video tips..I know this will be helpful to anyone..

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  42.   Andrealindy says:
    Posted: 29 Aug 15

    This advice totally makes sense.

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  43.   Gwambui says:
    Posted: 08 Aug 15

    Is he single? I wouldn't mind having a guyblike this in my life. Been single for the past 7years. I even forgot how it felt to talk to a man :-)

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  44.   Sexy4uonly says:
    Posted: 31 Jul 15

    Matthew,I loved this video. It was very helpful.

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  45.   Ahhshuxx says:
    Posted: 29 Jul 15

    Could have used this information about seven months ago!!!

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  46.   Babygirl1920 says:
    Posted: 27 Jun 15

    Nice!

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