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Love Stats...and other myths
I've found a sex expert, she's written a book. I'm going to share with you all the juicy little popular myths about men and their bodies that your high school health teacher forgot to share with you.
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Hey this is Leticia and I remember my 7th grade health teacher Mr. Brown like it was yesterday when I sat in his class looking embarrassed by all the pictures and the talks about the male and female anatomy. And here we are a ...few years later, okay, some years later, still wondering how in the world does it do what it do?
I didn't get a chance to check out the appearance of SexPert Tracey Cox when she appeared on Oprah. However, I have come across her book entitled Supersex. In it she talks about the great myths about men and their bodies. For example did you know that the average man has around seven erections a day. Who knew this? Sadly for most men and women, the majority of the "soldiers stand at attention" during their sleep. Actually, I did know this one and trust me when I tell you...I've heard of "you can't rape the willing", can you rape the sleeping? If they don't wake up is it still an offense? I was just wondering.
Another thing is that the average man can keep an erection for up to 40 minutes. Sadly most don't last that long, but this could be a great time to decorate it. While it's just standing there being non-productive and he's knocked out ‘cause that's what they do. Go get a magic marker, some ribbon, cotton balls and pretend you are in arts and crafts. If you are brave, take pictures and save them for the next time, he talks crap about how he lays it on you. Trust me when I tell you the next time (if there is a next time), he will make sure that you fall asleep first.
Here's one I've never heard on Jeopardy. Question: It can reach up to speeds of 28mph and contains more protein than a medium-sized pork chop. Answer: What is a man's ejaculation? Who test and measures these things? What was their major in College?
A few more things to keep in mind as you search for Mr. Right. According to the book, bald men have stronger sex drives. Apparently, there is some connection between hair loss and testosterone. The same chemical that is responsible for the sex drive in men. We have all heard that guys with big feet and big hands have...big shoes and big gloves right? The sad thing is that neither means he will have a big penis. This reason alone is why the "wonder bra" is fair and equal punishment.
The one we have all wanted to know, does research support the age-old myth that black men have the largest penises? Well, as long as we are talking averages according to the author's research it is true. Followed by white guys and then Asians. So, my sick curiosity has me wondering; if your parents were black and Asian, would your stuff be bigger, on average, than a white guys? What about my Hispanic, Multi-cultural and Native American brothers? Why are their penises left out of the loop? I guess I'll have to do my own independent study. The things I do for my craft.
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Fala says:Posted: 05 Apr 08
LOL@Unme don't worry, I'm sure you're the exception!
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mossimo36 says:Posted: 03 Apr 08Look up in the sky, its a bird, its a plane....able to reach speeds of 28 miles per hour!!!
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Daria22 says:Posted: 02 Apr 08
Why is there so much attention on size versus skill? If you don't know how to use what you've got, then you should be worried. While I'm not working with a large sample size, my experience has taught me that technique, attention to detail and communication are key.
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DesertRose09 says:Posted: 01 Apr 08
i think that black men overall do have a bigger and thicker manhood. i have been with few white guys and sometimes it was just pathetic at least for my taste. this was a good article, i did learn a thing or two
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lovely2see says:Posted: 01 Apr 08
I really enjoyed this article. It was fun and interesting.
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Cali2002 says:Posted: 30 Mar 08
Sorry, but I've been with only Black men and 1 middle eastern guy and the size stuff is total B.S.!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Out of the Black men I've dated only a small percentage of them actually had a "big" one. The majority had an average one and a small percentage had a "small" one. The only relationship, as someone stated, was height and then thats not always the truth...as with the midedle eastern guy. Think of it as a bell curve. One the far left you have the big, the far right you have the small. In the middle, average penis, is where most of them are. And as for porno, the white guys have just as big, if not bigger, packages...which is not something I would ever want...Hell No!
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nicefella115 says:Posted: 30 Mar 08
Fala is a bomb?? Oh boy, shes about to blow up!!
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nicefella115 says:Posted: 30 Mar 08
Fala is a bomb?? Oh boy, shes about to blow up!!
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Freeofdrama says:Posted: 29 Mar 08I thought the article was going to talk about a persons first time...not penis size. Sorry, I guess I'm a little slow...LOL
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mossimo36 says:Posted: 28 Mar 08
lol unme, how about mamacita? Was trying to say Fala is the bomb
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unme23 says:Posted: 28 Mar 08
what the heck is a bamba...is that like a labaomba??
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Sexycynamin says:Posted: 23 Mar 08
I'm with the majority that doesn't believe size matter. I've had my share and the larger it is...the more it hurts. BUT, the smaller it is hurts also(wink). In my younger years, I wanted larger, but as I gotten older, I realized an average penis with an experienced man is the BOMB. The size on a taller man (6'+) was in no comparison to the 5'9" man. I have been told the 5' and less was ever more amazing. Race doesn't matter when it comes to size because it range. If he doesn't know what to do with it.... LADIES, show him. GUYS, catch on.
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mossimo36 says:Posted: 21 Mar 08
Where is Bucky Goldstein? Those Native American Jews supposedly have the largest ones...
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nicefella115 says:Posted: 10 Mar 08
Nahhh, i dont think so unme, im sure fala is better looking.
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Darkilcious says:Posted: 05 Mar 08Size has nothing to do with it if you really love that man.I love my man for who he is, a 64 year old black man that is very romantic and he satisfies me in every way. Me personally has no place for a man that has a huge penis because when I have sex I want to enjoy it and a man that big always give me nothing but pain.
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Mimi423 says:Posted: 05 Mar 08I love the article!!!! I have been with black men for 18 years-the span of my sex life as a 37 year old woman. I just recently began dating white men. I must admit that most of the penis' are very similar in size except for this 28 year old brother I mess with. He has it all,but does not really know what to do with it. Oral sex,however,the white guys have it on lock!!!!!!
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mossimo36 says:Posted: 05 Mar 08
The photo alone made this article worth looking at...keep on researching!
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Me says:Posted: 02 Mar 08
I have to confess (it Sunday), that the pic got my attention. I began reading and kept reading until I finished the whole article (rare for me, I'm a skimmer)....I found it well written and very humorous. It was insightful and I think rare in truth. I am a Black man and agree with the findings of "size". It's based on "average", so there are (I guess) varying stats in most groups. The subject was not offensive and it was fine to talk about it here, we're adults and need to stop "sugar coating" things. I'm told that "width" is really whats up wit ladys anyway. There is something else to Black men that needs to be considered too, if you wanna really know what's "up". There is a "soulful-sensual" element, that not only comes from his body; lips, butt, skin-tone, voice, eyes, and with some, it's his attitude and other things. Not EVERY Black man has a large penis, and not all Asians, Native Americans, or Whites have a small ones by default. I believe there are variations with all groups. I do like the one I have...lol, but I hope the one I love...loves me for more that the "nut-factor"....lol
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mossimo36 says:Posted: 01 Mar 08
Now that was an interesting article...am sure Fala loved it!
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cocokisses says:Posted: 29 Feb 08this will only hurt for a minute...that's what they all say!
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seenitall says:Posted: 26 Feb 08
believe me,neither foot size,hand size,ear size,or whatever nonsense you hear about what may tell you about the size of a man's penis,and that INCLUDES height! I have seen many men,6ft or over with SMALL(and I mean SMALL penises)and that is erect! So height does not tell you.Sure,you are more likely to see a 9 incher(or above)on a taller man,but again,height does not tell you.In the end the reason is,none of it really matters anyway.Deep down,WE ALL KNOW what is MOST important.right?
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unme23 says:Posted: 26 Feb 08
leave it to fala, to make a comment about the picture..lol
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ncnikki says:Posted: 26 Feb 08
Well said fruitofjane...SIZE is NOT the key. People need to stop looking for the 1st thing to get offended about. Bigger means nothing if you don't know what to do with it...ask my ex! He had a extra 5' on current man but couldn't please me 1/2 as much! (TMi i'm sure!!):0
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fruitofjane says:Posted: 24 Feb 08
rockin' great fun to read! thanks for the giggles and the facts about the male sexually physical self. as for omitting info about who is bigger...do you assume that bigger is BETTER, that's why you want the info ommitted? My friends, size is not the key. Sensual connection is the key. A man who pleasurably engages with whatever inches he carries, whichever culture he is from, is the best lover in my book. Amen!
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phattkitty says:Posted: 23 Feb 08
Hey you guys, sometimes the truth is a little hard to swallow, no pun intended. If anyone has been with different races, they can make comparisons among the races on penis size, personally i have been with blk, wht and middle eastern men and they just happen to have parts i would describe as pleasing. This article is not to deflate or uplift another, uh, oh here i go again with the puns (ah, ah). Seriously, the article only stated what we already know to be the truth and nothing else. Sorry, Asian and Hispanic brothers i never had the opportunity. But that shouldnt take anything away from them either. Irie one luv
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Sharon says:Posted: 23 Feb 08This pic is very erotic! Love it... Smiles Sharon
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Fala says:Posted: 23 Feb 08
What is going on in the picture that goes with this article?
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girlsixdiva says:Posted: 22 Feb 08I agree with "anonymous". There shouldn't be any articles here that make one race look better than another.
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believeit says:Posted: 21 Feb 08
I just wanted to add yes black men and some white men have large penises. I have to add that middle eastern men have the killers. Yes I am a black woman and yes I do know.When you see my name you should do exactly as it says.. believe it !!
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write says:Posted: 19 Feb 08The things they didn't teach in school...or maybe they do now?
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kenyanito says:Posted: 18 Feb 08wow.. the picture made me read the article.. i have to some researh on how big it is depending with where you come from.
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Sharon says:Posted: 18 Feb 08
That was a cute post and I loved the pic...yea hawwwwww Southern smiles and world peace, Sharon
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outpass35 says:Posted: 18 Feb 08In reading this article I have learned a lot just by reading this was a great article.
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girlsixdiva says:Posted: 16 Feb 08
WOW that picture is a bit X-rated don't ya think! LOL
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JKLivin22 says:Posted: 16 Feb 08In addition to the data from this study (http://www.sizesurvey.com/result.html) there are many other studies with similar data that support these findings. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Penis_size) The studies conducted by these researchers in the name of science and condom manufacturers in the name of profits are much more credible than surveys that serve as fodder for provocative subject matter and book sales. This subject was also recently researched by a condom manufacturer. Their study concluded that the only physical determinant that showed any correlation to penis size was a man’s height. According to this study, (as with all the aforementioned credible sources) there was actually no correlation between penis size and hand size, shoe size, or any factors relating to race/ethnicity or geographic origin. Interestingly enough, many of these studies have shown that penis size is slightly greater among homosexuals than among their heterosexual counterparts. Perhaps because of their size, these guys developed an exceedingly strong interest in large penises in general, and not just their own. (This is purely suggestion and speculation on my part and not mentioned anywhere in any of these studies.) Let me finally say that at least some of the reason this stereotype exists is because of the porn industry. Just as you will almost always see a black man with a blond white woman in most interracial porn scenarios (because that is the fantasy) you will also almost always see black men with larger than usually penises in most porn scenarios, especially in interracial porn (again, because that is the fantasy). The porn producers are in business to maximize their profits which is achieved by producing material that appeals to their audiences’ sexual fantasies, not by producing material that accurately portrays sexual reality. Because much of the demand for interracial porn involves the fantasy of blond Caucasian women with large breasts having sex with physically fit black me with large penises, that is going to be the majority of what you are going to see in this genre of porn. Although I admittedly do occasionally view porn, I feel that in this way, the porn industry is perpetuating hostility along racial lines by suggesting that 1) black men are more capable of sexually satisfying a woman than their white counterparts, and 2) by suggesting that blond white women with large breasts are more desirable than other white women, Hispanic women, Asian women, and (imho) God's most perfect creation – African/African-American women.
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annonymus says:Posted: 16 Feb 08
While it is true that on average Black men do have larger penises while flaccid, white men actually have larger penises when erect. (http://www.sizesurvey.com/result.html) This myth/stereotype however is one that I truly feel perpetuates much of the animosity between the races (especially between black and white men, obviously) so I personally feel that the topic should be omitted from any forum and/or website that is in the business of promoting racial harmony.
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