How to kick start the new year... With a healthier SEXUAL appetite!
It doesn't really matter if you have a steady partner or not. You deserve to have a happy and healthy sex life...right? How do you get rid of those old thoughts and habits that may be keeping you from having the best sex ever? Does talking about sex make you sexier? Let's talk about it and see.
If you ask Justin Timberlake he'd tell you that he's bringing sexy back. Leticia says "sexy never left". Being and feeling sexy is so much more than what you wear and what you look like. It involves you as an individual, your family, your friends, your work, and your beliefs. The degree of your sexiness can be altered by other factors like your age, your weight, your past experiences and even your finances.
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Now tell me who hasn't had some doubts or inhibitions when it comes to sex? There's nothing like being "boonkey butt naked" in front of another person or alone to make you question if your feet are too small or your hands are too big right?
The one thing that I hear from men all the time in regards to finding someone sexy...is not the size of the boobs or butt it's the size of the ego. It's about confidence. Sexy men and women some how know they are sexy. They exude this thing that screams to others "don't mess with me unless you are ready for me to rock your world"! I do think that a lot of this confidence is mind over matter. "I think therefore I Am"! Hey, whatever works right?!
It would seem to me that getting our inhibitions out of the way and our doubts about not being perfect, would allow us the ability to have more satisfying sexual experiences. It really does all begin in our minds. If there is something that you don't like about your body, then change it...if you can. If you can't; then grab it, kiss it, claim it, love it and then work with it. Use what you got to get what you want.
If you are not getting what you want from your partner than ask for it. Show them how you like it. You wouldn't go into a restaurant and just sit down and hope that the waiter would just bring you your favorite meal. Would you? Sometimes we don't know what we want; we just know that we want something else. Talk, talk, and talk about it. Chances are that your mate wants and needs a little more variety too.
I must point out that sometimes the issue is more than just wanting and talking about it. Sometimes there are very real physical limitations that keep you from reaching your peak sexual performance. In areas that involve sexual dysfunctions, I would advise you to seek medical attention. Do some research, do some reading and don't be afraid to talk to someone about it. Although this problem may be new to you, the problem is not new and you are certainly not alone.
This is Leticia, telling you that YOU have the power to be sexually free...literally in the palm of your hand.
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justknowingu says:Posted: 05 Apr 07still trying to get things kick-started or whatever...its april...sigh...
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Pleasjure13 says:Posted: 05 Feb 07I need 1 million women wrapped up into one.
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mossimo36 says:Posted: 03 Feb 07Fantasize together and get it started over the phone or through sexy text messages with vivid detail...
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lizzy2005 says:Posted: 30 Jan 07
Communication is key in a relationship so that each person can let the other know what turns them on and what dosen't.
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justknowingu says:Posted: 29 Jan 07
lol...at coco..yes ginsing may help--but being attracted to, admiring and communicating with your lover--really helps the most...!--and of course timing and communication are key also!
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pinkgirl5 says:Posted: 29 Jan 07Talking about sex prior to getting it started, lets your partner know what you enjoy so each of you can lie alone and envision the pleasures you will have when you get together. My theory is just to release any self doubting and go with the flow, accepting that the first time won't be your best. It takes a little practice to get used to each others' bodies. Good article.
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besweet says:Posted: 23 Jan 07Great article!! I have known for a long time that sexy really has nothing to do with how you look or what size you are , skinny or thin, or if your rich or not. It all is in the mind and how your feel about yourself and how you present yourself to others and make them "feel" you mentally.And yes that can be called self confidence but it is so much more than that tooo!!! My sex appetite is great, just have to find someone to keep up with it. Its very hard to find in one guy, but still believe its possible. call me a dreamer. Ha!
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whytb0y says:Posted: 13 Jan 07
hay you hassa i'm a love mach-een main. you wanna play rough ,ok, i want you to meet my lil friend . to hear my sexy voice dial 1-900-whyt-is-a-sexy-mofo lol lol
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turbogirl says:Posted: 11 Jan 07
Come to think of it, talking about sex, face to face with my partner doesn't make me horny, but siting there next to him saying nothing at all but staring into his eyes or him staring into my eyes makes me as horny as hell...
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nicefella115 says:Posted: 11 Jan 07
great article, gave me some chuckles....lol
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vanillam72 says:Posted: 10 Jan 07
Talking about sex certainly is a great way to exorcise any inhibitions you or your partner may have...opening the path for you both to enjoy some intensely satisfying sensual, sexual pleasures together...
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lizzy2005 says:Posted: 10 Jan 07
Come on guys! Nothin to say on this issue? Seems like ladies have the best imagination lol!
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turbogirl says:Posted: 10 Jan 07
Yeah yeah, i once discovered that working too hard can put one off sex, while getting lazy makes one sexier. Personal experience for me..... Not sure if any othe person has experience this?
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sweetest1 says:Posted: 08 Jan 07
Does anyone else think she looks like shes sleeping with a backache?? Just a thought!
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Cocokisses says:Posted: 06 Jan 07
Why are most of the guys SILENT on ths article?
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Steve says:Posted: 06 Jan 07
Just try something different: having sex in the same old bed can become boring, be open-minded and do it somewhere else, spontaneously
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lizzy2005 says:Posted: 05 Jan 07
It is good to let each other know what turns u on.
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Natural72 says:Posted: 05 Jan 07
As some have expressed having an appetite is one thing, having the means to fulfill it is another. Sex...ppl still have sex? Wow, tell me more!
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xina03 says:Posted: 05 Jan 07I like to talk about sex and it makes feel better when i tell someone about my experiences
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Coco says:Posted: 02 Jan 07
Sexy huh? You know what they say...part of the art of being a WOMAN, is knowing when NOT to be...too much of a LADY!
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krockwyo says:Posted: 02 Jan 07It is important to let your partner know what pleases you and what doesn't. Sex is an important part of a relationship.
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Cocokisses says:Posted: 30 Dec 06
Great article! Maybe this will be my new year's resolution!
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Majesticone says:Posted: 30 Dec 06
Healthy appetite has never been the problem. lol. finding someone who can keep up.. NOW THATS THE PROBLEM.. oh and chemistry. i dont give the candy away to just "anyone". so the lid stays on the jar till that special someone comes along.
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Pleasjure13 says:Posted: 29 Dec 06
Better sex involves more than just a climactic effect. Other important variables include being safe and a mutual goal in ensuring pleasure for both partners.
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Jabali says:Posted: 29 Dec 06Some American group sang "Let's talk about sex". I think they were spot on!
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sweetest1 says:Posted: 28 Dec 06I have a great appetite--just noone to cook with... lol
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turbogirl says:Posted: 28 Dec 06
Nice one, yeah, it's good to talk about sex, but with the right set of people, talking about it with someone i dont fancy just puts me off sex the more. Hope you feel me?
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auroraxxx says:Posted: 28 Dec 06
sexiness is a good thing ...but we must remember to use it for good and never evil muahahahhahah
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ebonybeautyj says:Posted: 26 Dec 06Yes i agree there isnt enought GOOD and safe food!!
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Okay, I'm way on the late show with this article, but I really like the image of the restaurant and think it applies to much of a relationship. If you don't tell your partner what you want and what you need, in and out of the sack, you are less likely to get it.