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Are Asian men being sexualized?

Posted by James, 27 Jun

Asian men have been the topic of the day when it comes to multicultural relationships. Asian men dating black women, Asian men dating Latino women, Asian men dating white women, all these are topics that change from time to time! The image of the Asian men is constantly changing and unlike before, Asian men - movie stars especially (Jet Li, Rick Yune, and Chow Yun-Fat) are also being depicted as objects of lust. And suddenly, there is an increase in the numbers of Asian men marrying outside their culture.

About 10 years ago,a black woman dating an Asian man or an Asian man dating a white, Hispanic, or black woman was almost unheard of but according to a study of California marriage licenses, 18.9 percent of Asian-American men born in the United States are far more likely to marry women who are l white, 22.7 percent marry other Asian ethnicity, and 6 percent marry another racial minority.

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One interviewee once joked that Asian men are the next ‘trophy boyfriends.’ Funny enough, his Caucasian wife also joked about this saying: "It's almost like Asian boyfriends are the fashion accessory of the moment." Well how true is this? What is the reason behind the new popularity of Asian men?

Articles have been circulating over the internet about this. I remember an article in the Sunday Seattle Times where a writer Sharon Pian Chan, says that Asian men "are the hottest things since sizzling rice."This article incited quite a number of responses and letters to readers who talked about how wonderful and sexy Asian men are.

Wait one minute – have the tables suddenly turned? If my mind isn’t playing tricks on me, Asian women have always been accused of whoring themselves to white men and suddenly people a throwing a bash coz Asian men are sleeping with white women? Why is it that when Asian women marry a different culture, its betrayal, and when an Asian man does it, its seen as social progress?

Are Asian men also being subjected to sexual stereotypes? One white woman married to an Asian man writes, "Asian men make love even better than they make television sets." Should this popularity amongst white women be interpreted as a validation of their appeal?

In Full Metal Jacket (1987) most Asian-American guys were repulsed by a Vietnamese woman saying "Me so horny" and now they are being portrayed in a similar degrading manner. "The fact that Asian-American men are seen as nerds hasn't changed, only the appeal of nerds has," says Tommy Kim a graduate student at the University of Minnesota who teaches a class on the sexualization of race. "Nerds are now rich in this dot-com world, and money has always been sexy."

So why is it that when it comes to multicultural dating, sexual remarks always come into play? Can’t people just acknowledge other cultures for their personality?

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  1.   解放军 says:
    Posted: 25 Nov 10

    i am an east asian guy. when i am in asian countries i am fairly popular. i also get attention from black women as well around the world. but when i am in white countries, it is almost like i am invisible. in fact, when i am in white countries, i get more attention from men than women. i dont even bother asking women out when i am in white countries. the one exception for all this might be russia, or some ex soviet states, ie kazakstan. ive noticed that women there are at least friendly to me. whether or not they want me to poke them is a different story.

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    • Soju says:
      Posted: 11 Mar 11

      Maybe it has to do with how you carry yourself. My experience have been much more positive. I have dated many more white females than Asian females. I think many Asian females find me too assertive while white females find me more humorous and exotic:) I especially found European and Latinas easier to smooth over.

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  2.   Johnny says:
    Posted: 16 Aug 10

    Re: Glen Aug.4,2010 post The reason for the difference is because asian men have been bashed for so long, and rejected by white women even though they want them and would treat them nice, so when asian men get a white girl it's a signal of change. Either asian men got better, or white girls have become more educated or both. However, for the reverse case, asian girls with white guys, the general trend, esp what I have seen, is a negative one. Eg. the asian girl is a slut, her morals are of a much sluttier nature; either partner is dorky; immigrant girl with rich old creepy guy, etc. The trend is there are no "normal" ppl in these couplings. I wouldn't consider these asian girls as "betrayers", more like girls not even worth considering at all. Their pairing selections are broadcasting to others low standards. Who cares about a coupling where the girl is easy?? No one does.

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  3.   Member says:
    Posted: 14 Aug 10

    Are Asian Men Being Sexualized? A comment in this article reads, jokingly Asian men are the next "trophy boyfriends". Are you serious? Does the author of this article live in a parallel universe versus what reality really is? Nothing could be farther from the truth! Asian men for decades in U.S. statistical surveys, have less sex than ANY other male nationality. Why is that? Western culture and the media continue to negatively portray the Asian male. I use the term, the "invisible asian male". One clear example I can illustrate is with television exposure. The asian male is "invisible", meaning nonexistant in television shows, television advertising commercials, etc. Judge for yourself, pay particular attention to television commercials, and you will witness the majority of multicultural person television commercials will always have an asian female, but never an asian male. Why is that? Again, the negative portrayal of the asian male. I have had endearing girlfriends of all ethnicities, however, the point I wish to make with my blog, is that due to this Western culture stereotype and the media, we asian males must make more effort than any other male nationality to "get the girl at the end of the movie". Sadly, we don't. Yes, I am a 5'11" american born asian male, college educated, raised and living in the Bay Area of Northern California. Arguably, one of the most diverse multicultural communities in the U.S. I believe the content of this article has no merit. We are far, far, away from Asian men being sexualized.

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  4.   serenity33 says:
    Posted: 11 Aug 10

    I am a white heterosexual male but I think Asian men are attractive. I don't think it is Asian fetishes that snag Asian women to white guys though. I think it is the Westernization and Americanization that turns many Asian women and non-white women into selfish, hedonistic, materialistic individuals which goes against traditional Asian values off honor, integrity and respect which turns off Asian men to Asian women and then causes Asian men to go after white women who there is more of a variety of personality types to choose from since they are the racial majority. Sure, there are tons of bad white women out there but just by the law of averages due to the vast number of them, it is easier for Asian men to find a white female that embraces their good values than it is to find a Westernized or Americanized Asian female. And then Asian women going after white men, there are a lot of bad white men that share the same lack of morality and also share the same negative values that the Asian women picked up so they will go often for corrupt white guys. Asian women of this kind are notorious for being gold-diggers and there are a lot of rich white men in this country so they go hand in hand. So I don't think it has anything to do with Asian men being less attractive or anything like that. Studies show too that of any ethnic group, Asian women have the highest rate of lesbianism and bi-sexuality which may play a part in that as well. Joseph Moyer

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  5.   afrodite_07 says:
    Posted: 11 Aug 10

    - well, i always thought asian men (i like men of every color!) were attractive(sucks for me ,white chicks get all the love).its kinda a fad thing,i believe.though i find it sad for a race to be looked at as simply a fetish (it happens,and asian women are definately targets of it). the whole thing is people are lokkin' for somethin else to mess with,its what they do.(they've already sexualized everyone else,so why not asian men?) also,i believe (correct me if i'm wrong), asian men are actualy looking outside their culture more. i guess if the asian women are going outside their race to marry,that leaves less to the men,so they go out too. also,some people are letting go of certain sterotypes associated with asian men here's one: the other day, i saw this absolutely delicious asian man (he had to be like six feet becous i'm 5'8 and he was obviously taller than me) ,kinda pale-ish,with the prettiest dark eyes,full lips, his hair was thick,and jet black and had his hair cut short framing his handsome face...he was wearing a black shirt,and slacks,with the sleeves rolled up...and here's the crazy part...the lady huggin on him in a white mini-dress,and wedding veil was a milk chocolate woman with dread locks sitting on her very big chest.did not see that coming,nor did eeryone else staring at them on the train.

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  6.   Glen says:
    Posted: 05 Aug 10

    "Why is it that when Asian women marry a different culture, its betrayal, and when an Asian man does it, its seen as social progress?" Asian girls are with white guys because white guys have Asian fetish, that's not news. So the only question is why are Asian girls going for someone who only got a fetish on them? That's because Asian girls always want a white boyfriend that they can show off. And that is what we call superficiality, and it is not a good quality for a human, generally speaking. On the other hand, Asian guys are being desexualized by the media. So when Asian guys still got the white girls, that implies either we(yes, i am an Asian guy) worked hard to earn lots of money or we are just good people. And these are good qualities in a human, and that's why it's considered a progress.

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  7.   Julian says:
    Posted: 21 Jul 10

    the topic in question is "if asian men is being sexualized" i actually agree in seeing a trend. It may not be catching on to main stream media as quickly as it would take a while for the public to accept. But i work 3 jobs, at a retail store, a server at a restaurant and a bar tender at a club. I can say that I get hit on and flirted upon alot more than my counterparts working with me. I might just be my personality and looks, but it could also be the new trendy thing. I couldnt tell you, but i would not count that possibility out.

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  8.   Julian says:
    Posted: 21 Jul 10

    Im chinese male in my 20's. I see alot of asian male and white females posting, some latinas and blacks too. Well i will add in a comment for my girlfriend, shes Arabic and she loves sex with me. shes had over 20 guys, her most recent ex boyfriend was apparently a 9 inch black dude. But she tells me every time after sex that i am certainly better than the black dude, and i am top 3. I am not the biggest, i would say 5.8 inch around? but she tells me i have absolutely insane strength, stamina and style during sex. She comes 4 times and asks for more lol. Aside from the sexual aspect, she tells me i am differnt from her past boyfriend, how i treat her, care for her, listen and make her feel like someone special. :) i guess ill leave it at that.

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  9.   Alan says:
    Posted: 10 Jul 10

    I'm chinese and my girlfriend for years is white and we love each other a lot and i have two beautiful children :).

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  10.   liliam says:
    Posted: 10 Jul 10

    I'm Mexican and I love Asian men, I think they are so handsome,I was married with Mexican guy and also I had whites boyfriends but my crush right now is a Chinese and I think he is the best...

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  11.   Tuesday says:
    Posted: 25 Jun 10

    I'm attracted to women of all backgrounds, but I will only marry an Asian woman. Why? Because I don't want my kids growing up to be half breeds who won't be accepted by any group. Face it, racism will never go away. You're either Asian or something else. Half doesn't count.

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  12.   asian says:
    Posted: 22 Jun 10

    hey mexican, i'm an asian guy who loves latinas haha hope i run into you sexy

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  13.   MissMe says:
    Posted: 24 May 10

    I am a tall, thin, attractive WF in my late 20's. I have dated many different ethnicities--white, black, spanish, etc. I've just had my first experience with an Asian guy... All I can say is, WOW. I mean, un-freaking believable. There is nothing to that crap out there about them being small. However there certainly is something to them being intelligent, excellent lovers, and having amazing stamina. I have a very high sex drive; it has been hard for me to stay satisfied with men in the past. Now that I've tried him, I am NEVER giving my AM up!

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  14.   mexican says:
    Posted: 12 May 10

    Any asian guys like latinas? :)

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  15.   Member says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 10

    Im a white woman living in Japan, and have dated several asian men. However I was interested in asian men before coming to Japan. I would like to straighten out the rumor of "little asian penis" two asian men I dated had bigger penises than the white men I dated. also asian men tend to be better long term partners simply because they are more responsible and family orientated, which is why I'm marrying one soon. I cant imagine dating a non-asian, or non-japanese for that matter.

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  16.   rooster626 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    There are 2 types of penises: Hung Flaccid and Grower. Most people in this country, Europe, and middle east are use to seeing hung flaccid. Hung flaccid is what you see is what you get, it doesn't get much bigger when erect, though it looks impressive for an exhibitionist flasher type. Now most Asian men fall into the grower type - that is the penis that stays in most of the time and only comes out when it's ready to play with the right person. So it may look tiny at first, but when it comes down to the deed, it's there for action. God did not design Asian men not to be able to satisfy women, to do so would mean that God was flawed half of the time as most of the world's population is Asian. And if you don't believe me just yet and you're a woman near Los Angeles, let's get together and have a fling, I'll show you how it all works down there. ;)

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  17.   bambee says:
    Posted: 27 Feb 10

    Can i just say shame on you girls for disn' the men in your own race...i have had men from every race and i can say that the asian men that i know r more loyal and take care of their family...their extended family etc... and as for penis size and being good in bed you guys must have just had bad kuck in finding the wrong guys, because whenever i started dating my man which is asian people tried to tell me small...whatever! PERFECT! or maybe i just found the exception.

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  18.   Member says:
    Posted: 16 Feb 10

    6x6 isn't that great.

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  19.   Member says:
    Posted: 16 Feb 10

    I'm Chinese and have been with over ten white women. I love them. They are more affectionate and spontaneous. Sex was great. (I have a good size, bigger than some white boys. Way, way bigger than the 4" quoted by some asian females here.) Besides, i really care about my women having good time. Sometimes it's the emotional connection that really matters. (I'm not very good at this.) So those guys with small johns need not despair (i suppose, no first hand knowledge here). I have to say that a lot of asian men make good long term prospects but probably not good for one-night fling. Many WM say they are sweet, good listeners, etc., etc. Yeah, I can totally see that. The funny thing is that whenever I see an AM-WF couple, the white females almost always cast looks at me and want to talk to me. Their AM's tend to be more diminutive and resigned. I don't want to take the women from them, especially since the guy must have gone through a lot/sacrifice a lot to have his girl. But these experiences lead me to believe that the AM-WF relationship is mostly based upon the AM being the sweet provider. I personally wouldn't get into that kind of relationship.

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  20.   LikeCaucasian says:
    Posted: 04 Feb 10

    it's time for a new trend. Support AM vs WF!

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  21.   Joel says:
    Posted: 23 Jan 10

    If anything, i say asian women are by far more sexualized in mainstream american society as sex objects. If you take a look at movies, music, magazines, and even pornography it will confirm this. As an Asian male, i personally find it disgusting and degrading. I have met women who are interested in me solely for my ethnicity, but have never pursued a relationship with them. I think the sexualization of asian males in moderation is a positive thing.

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  22.   Member says:
    Posted: 14 Jan 10

    I am a South Asian endowed with a 6X6 Full Bore Piston. Although I am a very cautious and selective person, I have had the good fortune and pleasure of visiting and paying homage at many Venus Love Shrines of different ethnicity and culture. in their own unique ways and qualities, I find most very appealing and delectable. For most of my dates, the responses are usually a lot of OOOHHHHH! AAAHHHHH. AAAHHHH! Just the PURRRFECT FIT!

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  23.   Sogun says:
    Posted: 12 Jan 10

    I am sorry for the Asians girls that had bad luck with Asian guys. I am Asian guy that have lived in the U.S. for 34 years. I have dated all kinds and it is great. There is good and bad, small and big, tall and short, light or dark, rich and poor, and so forth with all race. If you only been with 10 Asian guys then all you know is those 10 guys. Sorry but please do not speak about all Asian guys when you do even know me. + in size and very manly. But anyways, if the guy had real love for you he would treated you with respect. That's in all the races. Love is love and lust is lust. Who ever you go for, be true to yourself and be happy.

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  24.   Michael says:
    Posted: 12 Jan 10

    Dear, Sexy Korean Chick, Mei Ling and AsiansRSmall You guys are trolls, have a nice day :) By the looks of your vocab you just sound like angry white men scared of the truth. Please don't troll :) we know we can please a girl better than you guys. Have a nice day! ^^V

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  25.   luvmyaZn says:
    Posted: 03 Jan 10

    This is interesting! I have the most handsome asian bf you've ever seen! Guaranteed. All my friends who are not attracted to asian guys at all find him verrry sexy! Anyway.... The "myth" is not true! He has a wonderful penis- Size is perfect! I've slept with black and white and the Asian is Amazin! Sorry to the asian females who had bad expiriences with asian men Maybe they just weren't turned on enough by you to "enlarge" there manhood to it's full capacity.

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  26.   AsiansRsmall says:
    Posted: 31 Dec 09

    Asians guys have real small penises. I am a girl and I know. It tickles its so small

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  27.   Anna says:
    Posted: 28 Dec 09

    I am a WF with AM - the man of my dreams & who knows if his race is anything to do with it, but he is kind, generous, funny, sweet - I've never met someone so romantic and passionate & sex is unbelievable with him. Everyone - go for who you want & don't worry about race, every person is different & someone's characteristics are affected by more than their race!

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  28.   Member says:
    Posted: 19 Dec 09

    i agree, i am chinese american girl from CT and i have always dated asian men but i am dating a white guy, i love his so much, his so tall, strong and sexy dark hair, green eyes and unlike my previous asian bfs he can make me happy in bed for a change, coming from an asian girl, the myth is true

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  29.   Member says:
    Posted: 19 Dec 09

    i am a asian girl and ive been with 7 asian guys, and never again, they are so physically weak, and feminine, anyone that says asian guys have big penises is on crack, i suggest you find out, i am korean 27 grew up in flushing ny and i can personally tell u, i would never sleep with an asian again, and i can speak for 10 or more of my best girlfriends who also dated asian men, average asian penis is like 4 inches , ive dated black men, white men and brazilian men and wow they are so strong in bed and so masculine, unlike asian guys, big hands, feet, facial hair and so agressive, its so sexy, plus they have so much bigger penises, sorry asian guys, i know this is a sensitive subject but asian girls would rather sleep with a black guy than an asian any dayyy baby

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  30.   Member says:
    Posted: 05 Oct 09

    I want to say that people in my generation, being in my 30's now, are still discriminatory. I think it is late teens early twenties generation that the tables have begun to change a bit.

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  31.   Nee-Nee says:
    Posted: 17 Sep 09

    People, Get your head out of your ass. There are all races being sexualized all the time, male and female because why....sex sells! It is what it is. If you dont like to be sexualized then stay in doors. Its guna happen if your envolved of not because if its not you it will be someone else. I am currently daiting a Chinese American guy and we have a son together.I admit i find aisian men attractive and white men as well.its just my preference, and its not because of there race..its just from my experience these are the type of men that seem to fit me most.And as a mixed "breed" myslef (i am Mexican, Puerto Rican, Black,& native american) i think it is hard to find asain and especially caucasion men who arent intimidated to approach me or feel that way when i approach them. The key is to always be yourself,because if you attract someone while not being yourself...well...you know how that will go.

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  32.   moon says:
    Posted: 08 Sep 09

    Hi Fatooti! YES! There are tons of sites that support BW and AM! BW are becoming a desirable choice. Google Sam Cacas and you will see a lot of links pop up. Go to Blasian love/Red room with Sam Cacas who is a novelist and married to a black woman. His passion is to get the word out to the world that these relationships exist. More so than people think. I am a BW who finds AM sexy, intelligent, gentle, kind and loving! Good luck Moon

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  33.   fatooti says:
    Posted: 13 Aug 09

    I am a BW of East Africa decent and have always been attracted to AM, especially those that are 1st /2nd generation. I know they prefer White Women as a choice of partner but could anyone suggest where I could meet some that have a BW preference. I have been working my way through this site and have found it mostly AM/WM and visa versa that want to meet each other; I havent gone through all the profiles yet so I could be wrong. Any suggestions would be welcome.

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  34.   renee24 says:
    Posted: 06 Aug 09

    CrazyAzn420 and mZsExYnSwEeT I liked reading your comments very positive, it's nice to hear from people who have experience. Yes the media always plays a big part in how we perceive each other, We have to get over this. Rainer that's a really sad story. But I have to ask why are you promoting a fetish that involves prostitution? Your girlfriend might feel that she doesn't always have to be faithful or honest because of this. How can you say she loves you but enjoys sleeping with other men? I don't get it. (let her go) Guy I've seen post where people use articles and stats to support their comments but a porn site? That's weird

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  35.   Filipino says:
    Posted: 30 Jul 09

    Asian dudes rock!

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  36.   jhc says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 09

    Yeah, but then you get hollywood neutering asian super heros, (DragonBall) and once again promoting the AF/WM relationships, and Chung-Li the movie, and a whole lot of others that just BOMB at the theatres, yet somehow, hollywood is still able to make more of them. Then you got the two major search sites, YAHOO and GOOGLE, whenever they get the chance you look up anything asian they bombard you with asian sex slave(girls) and sluts and buy an asian wife ads. Then if you look up anything asian + man(male/guy/boy eg.) your search results come up as gay websites /asian girls who like white guys, or asian girls getting F***'d

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  37.   mZsExYnSwEeT says:
    Posted: 24 Mar 09

    I'm a white female and have to agree that I prefer Asian men more than Caucasian. I have dated one long term bf who was Pacific Islander, but my first crush way back when was Japanese American, when I was 6, so I guess I started young. I had a Vietnamese bf back in high school. I recently started learning more about Chinese culture and had a huge crush on a very kind professional Chinese man. I don't think it was because of the exoticness or due to Asians being sexualized by the media (though I do think this country needs more Asian men as sex symbols and role models!). I cared about this person because of who he is and what he did to make a difference for others. I noticed that he was very respectful and kind, not to mention so handsome but humble. I did date another Chinese man who was younger than the first one and he spent half his life here, so he was very Americanized. He was incredibly cool to be with though. Anyways to make a long story short, I think it's a benefit to have the other culture to share. I don't buy it that people are trying it just because it's trendy. There is only one race and it's human. :)

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  38.   Lizz says:
    Posted: 20 Feb 09

    Asian men have always been looked down sexually in the media. I find this very sad. Asian men are amazing, both in a mental ans sexual way. I'm only 18 but I have had the great chance of dating 2 asians one Japanese and The other Chinese. I only like asian men. I have no idea why butI just find them sexy and irresitable. I can't get enough. Anyway the media is mainly run by white men, they know when girls discover the asian man the sex appeal of the white man will lessen greatly. This is why they cut down asian men so much in the media. I strongly advise women to try asian love. The asian men are loving, caring, sweet, strong, manly, sexy, sensitive, everything a girl/woman wants. It is apart of their culture.

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  39.   guy says:
    Posted: 05 Feb 09

    Check out Hung Lo the first Chinese male porn star fucking white women at shelovesasiancock.com. I hope this website will bring awareness to white, black, hispanic, jewish, arab and native indian people in America that many asian men do have large penis size like Hung Lo and are not always shorter than white men. Look at Yao Ming he is the tallest basketball player in the NBA. Yao has better skills than any basketball player in the history of the NBA that was taller than 7′ 5″ that includes the likes of Mark Eaton, Shawn Bradley and Manute Bol. There was this fear in the early 20th century in america by white men that asian men were animals, beasts and barbaric because they have large families, very horny and must fuck a lot. The white man then made a concerted effort to dehumanize the asian man to be sexless, unappealing, skinny with buck teeth, short in height with a small penis size so as to protect the white women from cross breeding and having mixed race kids. This disinformation has been constantly circulated in the media (movies, tv, radio, books, newspapers, and magazines) for the last 80 years. How can so many white people believe these stereotypes for so many years. The late Bruce Lee the martial arts expert and actor is so macho, robust, masculine and is a stud with no buck teeth. Are we to believe that he is uglier than Kelsey Grammer, unappealing, feminine like all asian men, too soft, can’t fuck white women because he is asian, by the way his wife is white. Are we to believe that Yao Ming who is asian has a penis size smaller than Mini Me who is white from the Austin Powers movies. For all those asian men haters out there, wake up and smell the coffee, Porn star Hung Lo is not the only asian man in America fucking white women. Face the facts asian men haters, times have changed and an asian man/white woman couple will no longer be perceived as taboo, odd, a rarity or an aberration but will be seen as mainstream and ubiquitous. A black man is now the president of the U.S. and an asian president will happen in the future. Keep it up Hung Lo at shelovesasiancock.com

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  40.   guy says:
    Posted: 14 Jan 09

    For all those people who believe in the stereotype of Asian men have small penises check out Hung Lo who is Chinese the first Asian male porn star in America at shelovesasiancock.com. He is endowed and does deliver with the white women he has sex with. I believe for many white people in America the thought of an Asian man having sex with a white women is so taboo, so unacceptable and so abnormal. Asian men have been neutered by the white media for so many years with the stereotype of being sexless, duds, having small dicks, unromantic, not good looking and can never be jocks. As the Asian population increases and more Asian men are involved in the entertainment field like actor John Cho, director Justin Lin and professional sports like Yao Ming in the NBA and Hung Lo in the porn industry more white women will date Asian men and the myth of a small penis is not related to a race but to an individual. Small penises can occur in White, Black, Hispanic, Native American and Middle Eastern men. Hung Lo has shown that you can’t judge a man’s size by his race…

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  41.   Rainer says:
    Posted: 09 Dec 08

    “Once You Go Asian You Never Go Caucasian!” My name is Rainer and I am from Germany.I can only strongly support what Rachel says and also CrazyAzn420! I did not took asians as competitors serious until my white girlfriend got interest in thai guys during a holiday. Finally her desire became so strong that she confessed to me that she really considers to be bedded by a Thai boy: What was supposed to be a one-night stand went totally wrong for ME. Once the Thai lover had sex with her and he knew she enjoyed like heaven, he immediately seized his chance for “long term sex” with a white girl and constant good paymentfrom my girl. The next morning he quickly chocked my resitance, fastened his grip on my girlfriend and took my girl over for the rest of our holidays. I tried to find out how many white males MUST learn to occasionally share their girls with young asian, if they do not want to lose their girls. Unfortunately no white seems to dare to admit it. I received only abusive replies.You may read more: http://www.stickmanbangkok.com/Reader2007/reader3853.htm or if you google: “My girlfriend had paid sex with a Thai boy” or “Why did I let my girlfriend had paid sex with a Thai boy.” I love my girl and she loves me. She never cheated on me and we got recently engaged. But is clear in our relationsship that she will continue to look out for sex with asians. The thai money boy was in the beginning very shy, but after he had penetrated my girl this immediately changed and he ridiculed me in front of my girl and I could feel how she loved his manhood and pride. Being the loser I desperately tried to get some respect from him, but when I saw his eyes, I knew, for him I was no more than a worthless eunuch. He paraded my girl in the Bangkok street, intimately touching her brest...I followed jealously the couple: asians ARE the better lovers! Lucky for many white guys their girls have not found out yet! Rainer

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  42.   CrazyAzn420 says:
    Posted: 28 Aug 08

    I'm an asian male and I will tell you that growing up my father has always wanted me to marry a vietnamese woman. to the point where he tells me to go back to Nam and meet one. Cultural differences would set us apart. I don't speak fluent Vietnamese. I grew up here in the states and went to a primarily white school. So yeah I like women who are not asain and i find them more attractive then asain women. and as for the sexualized thing. It doesn't bother me at all. some comments such as oh your asian so you have a small penis blah blah blah. if size were so important than why is my ex still dating asian men. and why would your (the dudes in question) ex gf be telling me that im better in bed. in all honesty i think color means nothing. if anything i believe that if there is an attraction if you believe that there is something there go for it. you never know.

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  43.   rachel says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 08

    I have the luck and pleasure of dating two asian men in my life - one korean and the other filipino. Though their cultures are ultimately different, I can say that they both made the best boyfriends/lovers EVER. What's the saying... "Once You Go Asian You Never Go Caucasian," well, I'm a firm believer. They are interesting, funny, considerate, quiet yet assertive, loving and make the best listeners. Not to mention, they are also extremely sensual and make the most passionate lovers. I have never enjoyed sex so much in my whole life. Gay? Maybe some, but in my opinion, they are 100x more masculine than any white male I've ever dated. They are also very comfortable in their sexuality - such a turn on!

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  44.   Member says:
    Posted: 28 Jul 08

    My husband is Korean American,tall,6'2",athletic build,handsome chiseled face and funny as hell. Yeah,he doesn't mind being sexualized.

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  45.   Member says:
    Posted: 17 May 08

    Nice Site ...

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  46.   EvenSteven says:
    Posted: 22 Mar 08

    Google is calling asian men gay, and if you ever search and reference the words "asian men" and any type of masculinity term, you will come up with mad gay sites. If you google asian men you will find Gay websites, if you google asian men and add sex or sexy guess what? more gay websites. or and the asian female white male thing is insane.... enough said kill google.

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  47.   Tess says:
    Posted: 11 Aug 07

    I don't think any race appreciates being fetishized in a racist way, however, is there anything wrong with finding Asian men sexy? Would you rather be de-sexualized? Just a thought. I'm a white female, btw, if it matters. I just appreciate Asian men, not exclusively, I like a variety of men, but I just am able to recognize that some individual Asian men are very attractive, and desirable, to me anyway. So, yes, it's about respect. I don't want to objectify anyone, of any race, even my own. But being attracted to someone is not a thought crime. Not yet anyway.

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  48.   hiimsteph says:
    Posted: 21 Jul 07

    However I am dating an asian, he is so sweet I love him so much.

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  49.   hiimsteph says:
    Posted: 10 Jul 07

    I agree with you whole heartedly

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