An instant Bond
Two days after Shawn bought a subscription to our site, he was browsing profiles when he found a member whose screen name was “Brejabre.” Her profile intrigued him.
“She was very thorough in her presentation: where she has been, what she has achieved, where she plans to go with her life,” Shawn says of Brejabre. And what she was looking for in a partner sounded awfully familiar. “She [and I] had listed a lot of the same attributes,” he chuckles.
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Breona, aka Brejabre, began her membership only a couple of months earlier, but in the past she had tried several other sites without much luck. “I was a few weeks away from my subscription ending and I was going to accept the fact that this wasn’t for me,” she concedes. Fortunately, she stuck with it just long enough to catch Shawn’s eye.
When she received Shawn’s Flirt, Breona naturally went to his profile right away. She looked at all of his pictures and read his entire profile. “I was blown away by how detailed it was,” she says. “I was very into him after that.”
Chatting on our site via instant messaging solidified these singles’ positive first impressions of each other. It turns out they had many similar life experiences under their belts and knew where the other was coming from. “It makes it much more intimate to know that I can share so much with him,” Breona says.
Over the course of the next week, Breona and Shawn spoke several times. Breona liked that Shawn was open and his answers direct. He too was impressed with their immediate rapport. “She’s able to answer a lot of my questions before I even ask them,” Shawn notes. “That’s a testament to the bond we share. But she is sincere and honest in all aspects of her life.”
When they met in person for Date No. 1, Breona was pleased with what she saw. “He was really handsome, physically fit and talkative,” she says. “His aura was very noticeable to me—so positive and upbeat.” Shawn found Breona “very beautiful” and immediately noticed that her smile can light up a room. “She also carries herself with unwavering confidence, a major plus,” he adds.
They had dinner at a Mexican restaurant, both ordering the same meal. Afterwards, they went to a musical show and didn’t call it a night until about 2 a.m. “We have been able to talk for hours and just never want to end a conversation,” says Breona.
As they saw each other again—regularly—the couple’s feelings deepened. It certainly didn’t hurt that they shared the same core values and focus on family. “I am family oriented and so is he,” Breona says. “He is older than the men I have been with… More mature and stable in his life.”
It’s important to note that Shawn and Breona do recognize each other’s flaws. But they accept each other just as they are, and in fact embrace their differences. “Our aspirations and flaws are complemented by each other,” he says.
Today, the couple is making plans for their future together. “Marriage is a topic between us for the near future,” Shawn says. “I can’t imagine a day without her.” Breona is on the same page. “We talk every day and never miss a chance to say how we feel about each other,” Breona says.
Is Shawn glad he bought that subscription to our site? “Best decision I ever made,” he laughs.
Breona hopes that other singles will follow in their footsteps. “I am a firm believer that this site helped us find each other,” she says. “There’s someone out there for everyone, and the site gives you a much greater chance of meeting than hoping and waiting for that day to come!”
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cakelady1 says:Posted: 30 Sep 11
I feel it was a beautiful story!!! We all are here for the same to find someone we can connect with and spend quality time. For those who maybe a little discouraged know that all things work to the good for those who love the Lord. God knows what we are in need of. Please stay encouraged fill your time with things that make you happy. Being a whole person is more important than to look for someone to complete you...When the person comes into your life he or she will be a blessing.
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dno says:Posted: 30 Sep 11I wish the best for you both, keep it new and selfless between you, and you will achieve what all seek in life. I am still searching for someone that gives, and have found to many takers, Christian and fallen angels alike . God has his plan. just looking for my best friend. Serenity.
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Taylor says:Posted: 26 Sep 11
I am so very happy for you.I have dated outside my race all my adult life,and it's good to see happy endings.
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happygolucky says:Posted: 17 Sep 11
Love their story. They are doing it right and taking their time. Whirlwind relationships rarely work out.
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alext2963 says:Posted: 30 Aug 11That's really nice. Even though after reading a lot of profiles I no longer feel I have anything to offer, I love to see people succeed. Congrats and I wish you both extreme happiness. Very nice.
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sexydee7 says:Posted: 16 Aug 11Wow, blessed couple, I have not been so blessed, this site really has some pervets enough is enough, tired of game playing. Not longer want to subscribe.
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bellaluxe80 says:Posted: 05 Aug 11
Awww! what an inspiring story! They make such lovely couple! -I hope to find the love of my life on the site as well...I still and will always believe in love.
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easyal says:Posted: 31 Jul 11I was in an interracial relationship and I really loved this girl but while things did not work out (for other serious reasons) I am not giving up on it. This story was inspiring, I am a people person no matter what their ethnicity, but I do have my preferences...
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Ladyshay000 says:Posted: 30 Jul 11that is such a beautiful story. it's so nice when 2 people find one another despite all the odds. best wishes for the both of you
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aantonio says:Posted: 26 Jul 11
congrats, i truly wish the best for you both, true loves conquers all :)
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Bluezeta says:Posted: 29 Jul 11
Aantonio....I agree with you true loves conquers all. Hopefully I will meet my true love here as well...I pray that all how is in search with the princess, queen, best friend, knight-in -shining armor will find them...That is my prayer for you all......Stay encourage
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NubianQ4U says:Posted: 26 Jul 11listen life has its way of showing us what is real and what isnt...WE AS PEOPLE JUST HAVE TO KNOW THE DIFFERENTS TO MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE...YOUNG MAN STAY ENCOURAGE....
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Emecoz says:Posted: 26 Jul 11Congrats to them. I hope i will get mine here as well.
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BlueJem says:Posted: 25 Jul 11
That wasn't a nice thing to say to Damnsexy, Getreal. There's no need to be nasty. He might not be sexy to you but I'm sure he is to someone.
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FOEVASTONED says:Posted: 25 Jul 11
i LOVED OUR STORY AND I HAVE FOUND SUCCESS ON HERE AS WELL AND WE ARE GOING TO TAKE SOME PICS ONCE WE SLOW DOWN. HE HAS MOVED ME ON TO HIS RANCH AND WE ARE BLENDING OUR FAMILIES...BUT U GUYS INSPIRED ME TO GET ON IT AND SHARE...IM SO HAPPY FOR U 2!
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damnsexy35 says:Posted: 21 Jul 11
Nice love story, thought i had one going but oh well. Congrats to you both and hope the future is just as bright.
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